How AI Can Give You the Go Ahead
What do you truly desire? This question, while seemingly simple, probes the depths of our aspirations and challenges, especially when our fun-loving side is engaged. Daily, we navigate a mental labyrinth of approximately 35,000 decisions, ranging from the mundane to the profound. This constant decision-making depletes our mental energy, often leaving us too fatigued to address life's more significant questions. It's no surprise that a common wish is simply "to take more naps."
As Will Durant, the philosopher and historian, eloquently stated, "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit." The decisions that exhaust us also shape our identities, yet we often find ourselves trapped in cycles of questionable choices and unfulfilled desires for rest.
A groundbreaking study by Lasting reveals that 70% of our challenges are perpetual, hinting at the futility of fretting over the unchangeable. However, change is not only possible but within reach. Dr. Gail Matthews from Dominican University in California discovered that individuals who write down their goals are 42% more likely to achieve them. Furthermore, setting time-bound objectives and sharing progress with a friend can enhance achievement by an additional 40%.
Yet, as decision-making becomes increasingly complex, and emotional triggers intensify, our capacity for rational, thoughtful responses diminishes. Emotional undercurrents influence 90% of our financial decisions, yet discussions of feelings are conspicuously absent from professional settings. My experience as one of the first female founders in legal tech, overseeing negotiations in divorces, real estate, financings and mergers worth over $1 billion, has shown me the paralyzing effect of fear, uncertainty, and doubt (FUD) on decision-making.
Our research with over 2,000 individuals during their most stressful life events, revealed a staggering ratio, 70% of people wanted "respect." This insight led me to develop Ella, an AI advocate designed to navigate the emotional complexities of decision-making. Ella combines legal advice with wisdom from Experts in Action across various fields, including health, relationships, money, and careers, drawing on snackable insights from thought leaders like Brene Brown and Sam Altman - it’s like having the world’s best coaches on call. WeKnow calls them Experts in Action.
In love and life and careers people get stuck in confusion and indecision. We have an over desire to make the right decision. We don’t know how to see the truth, define our options and make clean and satisfying decisions. When in reality the more challenging a decision seems, the less significant it may ultimately be. While there are exceptions, generally, if choosing between two options is particularly tough, it often means they're equally viable.
Ella is not just an AI Data Room; she's a synthesis of counselors, judges, money buddies and life coaches, created to guide you through moments of FUD and help clarify your decisions regarding personal and professional dilemmas. By uploading personal documents to a private forum, Ella offers confidential advice tailored to your unique situation, whether you're questioning a custody arrangement or seeking ways to incorporate more rest into your workday.Â
Yet, the challenge remains: will those who need Ella most embrace her? Despite the Pew Research Center's finding that 52% of Americans view AI with apprehension, the Permission Slip Theory presents a compelling counter-narrative. By simplifying the decision-making process, AI can encourage individuals to pursue their deepest desires through a structured action plan with a Peace of Mind Guarantee to appeal Ella’s advice or decisions for review by our Experts in Action is transforming engagement with technology.
Inspired by Volkswagen's Fun Theory, which proved that enjoyment can significantly increase engagement with socially and environmentally responsible behaviors, we believe that starting with fun can revolutionize how people interact with AI. Ella, armed with the Permission Slip Theory, stands ready to assist humanity in navigating life's toughest decisions with a blend of empathy, expertise, and encouragement.
In embracing AI as an ally, we can confront the daunting array of daily decisions with renewed energy and clarity, allowing us to focus on what truly matters and, perhaps, find the time for those much-needed naps.
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